Why "Cocky & Funny" Attracts Women

WHY THE COCKY & FUNNY ATTITUDE IS ATTRACTIVE TO
WOMEN... AND HOW TO USE IT

I get a lot of email from guys who don't quite
get the Cocky & Funny attitude.

It just doesn't make sense to some guys that
teasing women, busting their balls, being slightly
arrogant, not kissing up to them, etc. could or
should make them feel attraction.

I can understand this because I was exactly the
same way the first few times I heard it and saw it
being used.

I kept thinking to myself, "If I do this cocky
and funny thing, I'm only going to come across as
arrogant... and that can't make women like me
more."

Well, was I wrong.

You must always remember that ATTRACTION isn't
logical. It doesn't follow the rules that it
"should" follow. ATTRACTION is a very powerful
emotion that has reasons and triggers that don't
make any sense at first glance...

I'm sure you've seen many attractive women with
guys who mistreat them, abuse them, and were
exactly the opposite of what you'd expect a woman
to accept.

Why?

ATTRACTION. In the beginning she felt
attraction, and as bad as it may sound, almost no
amount of being "bad", abusive, or jerk-ish can
convince a woman, feeling a strong attraction to a
guy, to leave.

So let me take the opportunity to talk a bit
about the Cocky & Funny attitude, why it works,
and how to use it to attract women (without having
to be an abusive jerk).

First of all, you have to remember that the
formula is Cocky PLUS Funny. Always both.

If you act too cocky, you'll only come off as
arrogant and insecure.

If you're just funny, always telling jokes, and
making people laugh, you will probably come across
as "too goofy."

But if you use BOTH together, you will create
magic. Cocky + Funny is like sparring... it's
sport... it's fun... it's challenging... it's
interesting when used with skill.

So let's get clear about what "Cocky + Funny"
is.

Here's a cocky statement:

"Her dress makes her look fat."

Here's a Cocky + Funny statement:

"If she doesn't find a dress that fits better, the
fashion police are going to send Acura Cl Oxygen Sensor in the SWAT team
for her ass."

Get it?

Start with arrogance, then add humor.

So why does it work to attract women?

Where To Take Women On Dates

It's always interesting to me to get a view of
how another person sees the world...

Your questions have given me some insight into
the way you THINK, and I believe that I'm going to
be able to give you some great ideas.

You said that you've found that "playing up a
woman's insecurities" in a tactful, Cocky & Funny
way, is really working for you.

Now, this might sound a little bit "cruel and
unusual" to others reading your comments... and
I'd like to explain the psychology behind it, and
tell you why I think it works so well for you.

There are a few keys that one needs to remember
when interacting with an attractive woman you've
just met...

1) Most guys pursue her, give her compliments, try
to get her approval by giving her things like
Acura Cl Oil Filter and taking her out.

2) Most men don't say things that might "rock the
boat". In other words, most men won't make a
comment early on that might offend or upset her.

3) Most men give away all of their power to
attractive women INSTANTLY. I'm talking as soon
as they meet.

4) Women interpret these behaviors as a man not
feeling comfortable enough and secure enough IN
himself to BE himself. In other words, these
"commonly accepted courting behaviors" actually
come across as subtly MANIPULATIVE to women. At a
subconscious level, a woman can INSTANTLY sense a
man who is communicating the message "I don't
think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to
do a bunch of other things for you in the hopes
that you'll give me approval". I know, the truth
sometimes sucks.

Killer Strategies With Women In Bars & Clubs

There is one place where you will ALWAYS find
attractive women...

And that one place is BARS and CLUBS.

As you already know, bars and clubs are
JAM PACKED with attractive, single women...

But there's just one problem: These women are
usually MOBBED by guys with Acura Cl Nerf Bars.

Drunk guys. Stupid guys. Attractive guys.
And YOU.

Bars and nightclubs can be the most
CHALLENGING places to meet women... IF you don't
know what you're doing...

But... if you DO know what you're doing, these
places can be a GOLD MINE.

How Do I know? Because I've spent more time
than I'd like to admit meeting women in these
places.

And if YOU would like to learn how to master
meeting women in the "Bar & Club Environment",
then I highly recommend that you check out the
fast-track training program I've created called
"Meeting Women In Bars & Clubs".

Why You SHOULDN'T Tell A Woman You're "Interested"

If you do certain things and communicate in a
certain way, you will trigger ATTRACTION in a
woman.

If you trigger ATTRACTION, you will be far more
likely to be in control of the situation (and
you're more likely to be successful with women in
general).

Now, just like you can trigger that amazing
emotion called ATTRACTION with your communication
and body language, you can also trigger OTHER
emotions as well.

And one of these emotions, for lack of a better
term, is called LOVE.

Now, I don't want to get into a philosophical
discussion of what "love is", and how long it
takes to feel "true love" for another person...

But I will say that the "beginnings" of love
can be observed and described.

Have you seen any episodes of the bizarre T.V.
show "The Acura Cl Multi Rib Belt"?

You'll notice that several of the women have
said things like "I am starting to have feelings
for him"?

When they say this, they're talking about
something OTHER than just ATTRACTION.

In a nutshell, I'll just say that if you ACT
like a guy that wants a woman to LOVE you, then it
will often HAPPEN.

This includes:

- Calling and seeing a woman too often

- Acting like a "boyfriend"

- "Courting" a woman actively

If you don't want a woman to get those
"feelings", then don't call or see her more than
once or twice a week.

Don't act like her boyfriend.

And don't "COURT" HER!

There's nothing wrong with going out with a
woman a few times, then not wanting to see her
again.

The problems come when you ACT like you want
something MORE from a woman, and then she starts
to see you in a different way and have FEELINGS
for you.

There's something called an "implied social
contract".

This is when you do something in a way that
"implies" something.

If you do things that imply that you want to be
her boyfriend or husband (like calling and seeing
her all the time, paying tons of attention to her,
courting her, etc.) then you are IMPLYING that you
want her to have feelings for her. And she will.

Solve this problem before it happens. Don't
imply.

How To Use Flirting To Make Her Want You

Here's an example of some of one of my favorite
topics to "riff on" when flirting... the topic of
getting married and us being in a relationship...
and I'll give it to you in the form of a sample
dialogue. Keep in mind, I might have a
conversation like this one with a woman that I
just met five minutes earlier...

Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"

Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get
married? We could leave for Vegas right now and be
married in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with
money."

Her: [Laughter] "OK, that sounds like a plan"

Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you can
support the both of us on your income? I really
want to be a stay at home husband... you know,
keep an eye on the TV and such as Acura Cl Mud Flaps."

Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."

Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's
over between us. I was going to marry you, then
divorce you a week later and take half your
money."

Her: [Laughter] "You can't break up with me! I'm
not even your girlfriend."

Me: "That's all the more reason."

...do you get what's going on here?

I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job
and income) and redirecting the conversation in a
flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a fun
mood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage,
divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting
me, etc.).

If the above example doesn't make any sense to
you, then take that as a sign that you need to get
out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or
two.

When you ask for something and she says, "I'm
sorry, we don't have that", just say, "OK, this
relationship isn't working out... I'm going to
have to break up with you."

In fact, you can say this in just about ANY
situation with ANY woman where she's saying
something that you don't like, and it's funny.

When you communicate like this, you're
FLIRTING, you're TEASING, and you're initiating a
DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than what most men
initiate.

And as soon as the woman you're talking to
"engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAME
IS ON.

There are a LOT of ways you can flirt, and a
lot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that DON'T
REQUIRE WORDS.

If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow,
look back at her and do the same... only
exaggerate it.

If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down
at it, then look up at her in a surprised way,
then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a
major "ah ha!" realization... then start smiling
and nodding your head as if you just realized that
she wants you. This is a powerful combination
because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning
in her touching you.

There are a MILLION ways to flirt like this,
but the point that I'm trying to make is that you
NEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OF
YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN.

5 "Wussy Signals" Women Notice Instantly

It's interesting not because of the content of
the actual question... but, more because of what
it SAYS about you and what you're thinking.

When you say, "Can you tell me how to ask a
woman if she has kids before a first date?" it
implies that you think that there's something
wrong with just coming out and asking it.

It's like you're saying, "Well, I know that I
can't just ASK her if she has kids... so can you
tell me some cool trick to get her to spill it
without me having to ask?".

Well guess what?

THIS IS A PROBLEM.

It's not necessary to use trickery when you
want to know something about a woman.

If you want to know if a woman has kids, then
you need to ASK.

Say "Hey, do you have any kids?".

If she says, "Yes", then say, "Great. I'm
really looking for a woman who doesn't have any
kids, but we can be friends".

Let's use a different example.

Let's say you've placed a personal ad online
for Acura Cl Mirror.

Let's say that a cute woman replies.

Let's say that she sends you a picture... but
it only shows her face... and you're only
interested in women who are slim.

Now, you probably would write to me and ask me
to give you some slick way to get her to share how
much she weighs with you without having to ask.

Wrong idea.

Just email her and say, "Hey, how tall are you
and how much do you weigh? I really prefer women
who are slim. Let me know...".

That's it.

Think about it.

If she IS slim, she'll tell you, and probably
be glad that you were up front with her and
direct.

If she ISN'T slim, she'll be glad you told her
now and didn't waste her time.

I think that your problem is probably rooted in
insecurity, and caring too much what other people
think of you.

...by the way... it's NOT OK to say, "Hey, I
really HATE FAT CHICKS... so tell me now, because
if you're fat I'm going to bail...".

That's not cool.

If you act like an adult and expect others to
act like adults, you'll do well with women.

If you pussy-foot around the issue (a perfect
term for you and this) you'll wind up trying to do
things that waste everyone's time.

If you're up front, direct, and not caring what
other people think of you, then you're going to
make women respond more powerfully.

How To Act On The First Date

"How should I act on the first date?"

I get a lot of specific questions that are
basically variations of this... things like:

"What should we talk about?" and "How do you
keep the conversation interesting?"

So instead of answering one specific question,
I'm going to lump them all together... and I'm
going to just address them all in this Q&A Dating
Tip.

Here goes...


THE FIRST DATE ISN'T AN INTERVIEW

The first thing to remember when you're meeting
up with a girl for "a date" is that it's NOT an
INTERVIEW.

You're not applying for a job (and neither is
she), so don't act like it.

It's so funny to me when I sit down in a
restaurant and I hear a couple that's obviously
out on their first date... and the guy has no idea
what to do.

It sounds like this:

"So, did you grow up around here?"

"Where did you go to school?"

"Do you have brothers and sisters?"

"What kinds of things do you like to do for fun?"

Painful.

Why is it that people tend to act like they're
on job interviews when they go out on dates?

It's just such the NOT-right thing to do.

I mean, no wonder women sit around with each
other and complain about how hard it is to find an
interesting guy in this world.

Here's a good rule of thumb:

ONLY ASK QUESTIONS OR TALK ABOUT COMMON,
BORING, PREDICTABLE TOPICS LIKE SCHOOL, WORK AND
FAMILY IF YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY RUN OUT OF ALL OTHER
OPTIONS... AND YOU REALLY ENJOY THAT CURIOUS DRY
FEELING RIGHT WHERE YOUR LEGS MEET.

And why is this?

Good question. And I'm glad you asked.

First, let's talk about WHY most guys allow the
conversation to turn to these ultra-boring
topics...

Most guys approach a first date from the
perspective of "I don't want to screw this up".

In other words, they try to play it safe and
not do anything or say anything that the girl
might not like.

They try to present themselves as "nice guys"
who love mom, have a good job, and are stable.

Somehow, guys have gotten the idea that if they
act nice, buy dinner, and talk about the same old
things that everyone else uses to bore women to
tears that they might get lucky and score (or at
least get a kiss and a second opportunity to buy
dinner).

I don't know where this concept came from, but
it's just not a very effective approach.

WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO THE SAME OLD SAME
OLD, BORING, PREDICTABLE CONVERSATION.

Attraction happens when there is energy, spice,
humor, mystery... COCKY AND FUNNY... and special
sauce.

So, if you want to create ATTRACTION instead of
BOREDOM, you're going to have to learn a new way.

You're going to have to learn to talk about
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Avoid THESE Mistakes With Women

Dear Master Pogi,

Dude,i must say your a genius. I just
graduated from high school, when i was in school i
was always shy around girls an didn't know what to
say, you've helped me open up my eyes to what i
should of been doing a long time ago. Now I've got
2 girls that both want me , an i really dont know
how to handle that. Any suggestions????? None of
my friends are giving me any good answers. Im
sure u have some. Help me out if u get a chance, u
dont gotta publish it in your emails u send to
everyone . I just really wanna know what to do, i
dont want to fu** this up. Any help would be
greatly appreciated.

Jayson Cage of NY.

OK, well it doesn't sound like too much of a
problem to me.

You have two girls that like you, what's the
issue?!

You're going to have to decide if you'd like:

1) A relationship with one of them.

2) To be single and date both of them.

If you want a relationship, then pick the one
you like as you choose an Acura Cl Ignition Wire Set
and go out with her more than once a
week.

If you DON'T want a relationship right now,
then don't see EITHER of them more than about once
a week (twice once in awhile is OK, but any more
than that and a woman will start to go into
relationship mode AUTOMATICALLY).

There is no problem with more than one woman
liking you, the problem comes if you start being
dishonest and not-up-front in your dealings with
them.
These are great problems to have, really... as
long as you don't screw it up by being a jackass.

5 Secrets To Increasing Her Interest In You

If you're interested in learning how to
approach women, get phone numbers, get dates,
and then smoothly take things to a "physical"
level without rejection, then take a minute
and look through the programs I've created to
help you.
Understanding why you need to leave at this
point is part of understanding the dynamic called
ATTRACTION.

So before I get into the specifics, let's talk
about the underlying process that creates
ATTRACTION...

1) ATTRACTION isn't a choice. It's an emotional
reaction.

ATTRACTION is nature's way of taking over our
minds and bodies long enough to make sure that we
mate with someone with the best possible genes
like Acura Cl Ignition Switch.

I realize that this sounds pretty "clinical"
and lame, but it's the damn truth.

Attraction isn't concerned with you, her, or
love. It's evolved over a loooong period of time,
and it has a purpose that is very important.

2) ATTRACTION isn't logical, in the sense that it
isn't created by things that "should" create it.

Buying women dinner and gifts, giving lots of
compliments when you first meet a woman, and
kissing up to women to get their approval are
examples of "logical" things that SHOULD create
attraction... but don't.

When you understand how attraction works, you
begin to see that it has a "logic" all its own.

Attraction is one of my favorite subjects...
and I think you should understand it if you want
to be successful with women.
3) Women aren't attracted to guys who act like
needy Wuss-Bags. When guys give lots of
compliments, seek approval, act clingy, or try to
go out of their way to be overly "nice", it
usually backfires.

Women run from Wussy men (either that or they
go shoe shopping with them... and the guy usually
pays).

4) Unfortunately, many guys are mentally
programmed to a sort of "Default Wussy" mode of
behavior when they encounter a woman that they're
attracted to.

When you combine this Default Wuss mode with
nervous body language, you create an almost
impossible barrier between you and ever creating
ATTRACTION.

5) Just like a painting or a song, too much can
ruin an interaction with a woman.

You must know when to leave, hang up, or end
the interaction.

Leaving at the right moment creates tension,
anticipation and mystery.

How To Get Past A Woman's "Defenses"

A few hours ago I was standing in a "posh" bar
in San Francisco.

I was standing near to the bar, looking around
at the people, when the guy next to me starts
talking to a girl that he doesn't know.

She turned and looked at him with a look that
said "I don't know you, I don't want to talk to
you, and you have no chance with me".

The look on her face couldn't have been more
clear. As soon as he started talking to her, she
put up her defenses.

The more he tried to talk to her, the more
annoyed she got.

It was painful to watch.

Then things got REALLY interesting.

The guy turned to me and started making
conversation with me.

He asked me how I was "doing" with the ladies
at the bar.

I told him that I had just arrived
after i stepped on the Acura Cl Ignition Coil, and I
wasn't particularly in the mood to talk to women
at the moment... I was just enjoying my drink and
relaxing.

He then started to talk about how "meeting
women was a numbers game" and how he had been
"laying rap" on women all night... but he didn't
have any "luck" so far.

We started discussing our different approaches
to meeting women.

I told him that when I decide to talk to a
woman that I really find attractive, I am
confident that I'll be successful with her.

He kind of laughed and told me that meeting
women was a game of luck, and if you wanted to
win, you had to just keep playing the numbers...
and hope you find one that likes you.

Right at that moment, two cute women walked up
to the bar. One of them was very hot. He
looked at the hotter girl, pointed to her, and
said "I like that".

I said "Well then go talk to her".

He decided to go "order a drink" (in other
words, he was going to go up to the bar and FAKE
like he was there to order a drink, and then
"accidentally" start a conversation with her).

Of course, he already HAD a drink, so he
fumbled around trying to find a place to put it
down so he could walk up to the bar with no drink
and not look like he was "on the make".

It was pretty damn funny.

Anyway, he squeezes in next to this girl, and
tries to act like he's just there to get a drink.
He then turns to her, and tries to start a
conversation.

What happened? Of course...

Her defenses went up INSTANTLY.

She said a few words to him, but then turned
away from him, took her drink and her friend, and
walked away from the bar.

He came back over to me and made no comment
about the interaction with her...

I watched him try to talk to more women after
that... all with the same result.

Their defenses went up AS SOON as he started
talking to them.

This guy's theory of "talking to a lot of women
until you get lucky and find one who likes you"
was working pretty well...

Except for the fact that he WASN'T getting
"lucky" at all, and NO women liked him....