Here's an example of some of one of my favorite
topics to "riff on" when flirting... the topic of
getting married and us being in a relationship...
and I'll give it to you in the form of a sample
dialogue. Keep in mind, I might have a
conversation like this one with a woman that I
just met five minutes earlier...
Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"
Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get
married? We could leave for Vegas right now and be
married in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with
money."
Her: [Laughter] "OK, that sounds like a plan"
Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you can
support the both of us on your income? I really
want to be a stay at home husband... you know,
keep an eye on the TV and such as Acura Cl Mud Flaps."
Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."
Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's
over between us. I was going to marry you, then
divorce you a week later and take half your
money."
Her: [Laughter] "You can't break up with me! I'm
not even your girlfriend."
Me: "That's all the more reason."
...do you get what's going on here?
I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job
and income) and redirecting the conversation in a
flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a fun
mood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage,
divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting
me, etc.).
If the above example doesn't make any sense to
you, then take that as a sign that you need to get
out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or
two.
When you ask for something and she says, "I'm
sorry, we don't have that", just say, "OK, this
relationship isn't working out... I'm going to
have to break up with you."
In fact, you can say this in just about ANY
situation with ANY woman where she's saying
something that you don't like, and it's funny.
When you communicate like this, you're
FLIRTING, you're TEASING, and you're initiating a
DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than what most men
initiate.
And as soon as the woman you're talking to
"engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAME
IS ON.
There are a LOT of ways you can flirt, and a
lot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that DON'T
REQUIRE WORDS.
If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow,
look back at her and do the same... only
exaggerate it.
If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down
at it, then look up at her in a surprised way,
then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a
major "ah ha!" realization... then start smiling
and nodding your head as if you just realized that
she wants you. This is a powerful combination
because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning
in her touching you.
There are a MILLION ways to flirt like this,
but the point that I'm trying to make is that you
NEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OF
YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN.
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