Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Why "Cocky & Funny" Attracts Women

WHY THE COCKY & FUNNY ATTITUDE IS ATTRACTIVE TO
WOMEN... AND HOW TO USE IT

I get a lot of email from guys who don't quite
get the Cocky & Funny attitude.

It just doesn't make sense to some guys that
teasing women, busting their balls, being slightly
arrogant, not kissing up to them, etc. could or
should make them feel attraction.

I can understand this because I was exactly the
same way the first few times I heard it and saw it
being used.

I kept thinking to myself, "If I do this cocky
and funny thing, I'm only going to come across as
arrogant... and that can't make women like me
more."

Well, was I wrong.

You must always remember that ATTRACTION isn't
logical. It doesn't follow the rules that it
"should" follow. ATTRACTION is a very powerful
emotion that has reasons and triggers that don't
make any sense at first glance...

I'm sure you've seen many attractive women with
guys who mistreat them, abuse them, and were
exactly the opposite of what you'd expect a woman
to accept.

Why?

ATTRACTION. In the beginning she felt
attraction, and as bad as it may sound, almost no
amount of being "bad", abusive, or jerk-ish can
convince a woman, feeling a strong attraction to a
guy, to leave.

So let me take the opportunity to talk a bit
about the Cocky & Funny attitude, why it works,
and how to use it to attract women (without having
to be an abusive jerk).

First of all, you have to remember that the
formula is Cocky PLUS Funny. Always both.

If you act too cocky, you'll only come off as
arrogant and insecure.

If you're just funny, always telling jokes, and
making people laugh, you will probably come across
as "too goofy."

But if you use BOTH together, you will create
magic. Cocky + Funny is like sparring... it's
sport... it's fun... it's challenging... it's
interesting when used with skill.

So let's get clear about what "Cocky + Funny"
is.

Here's a cocky statement:

"Her dress makes her look fat."

Here's a Cocky + Funny statement:

"If she doesn't find a dress that fits better, the
fashion police are going to send Acura Cl Oxygen Sensor in the SWAT team
for her ass."

Get it?

Start with arrogance, then add humor.

So why does it work to attract women?

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