Why You SHOULDN'T Tell A Woman You're "Interested"

If you do certain things and communicate in a
certain way, you will trigger ATTRACTION in a
woman.

If you trigger ATTRACTION, you will be far more
likely to be in control of the situation (and
you're more likely to be successful with women in
general).

Now, just like you can trigger that amazing
emotion called ATTRACTION with your communication
and body language, you can also trigger OTHER
emotions as well.

And one of these emotions, for lack of a better
term, is called LOVE.

Now, I don't want to get into a philosophical
discussion of what "love is", and how long it
takes to feel "true love" for another person...

But I will say that the "beginnings" of love
can be observed and described.

Have you seen any episodes of the bizarre T.V.
show "The Acura Cl Multi Rib Belt"?

You'll notice that several of the women have
said things like "I am starting to have feelings
for him"?

When they say this, they're talking about
something OTHER than just ATTRACTION.

In a nutshell, I'll just say that if you ACT
like a guy that wants a woman to LOVE you, then it
will often HAPPEN.

This includes:

- Calling and seeing a woman too often

- Acting like a "boyfriend"

- "Courting" a woman actively

If you don't want a woman to get those
"feelings", then don't call or see her more than
once or twice a week.

Don't act like her boyfriend.

And don't "COURT" HER!

There's nothing wrong with going out with a
woman a few times, then not wanting to see her
again.

The problems come when you ACT like you want
something MORE from a woman, and then she starts
to see you in a different way and have FEELINGS
for you.

There's something called an "implied social
contract".

This is when you do something in a way that
"implies" something.

If you do things that imply that you want to be
her boyfriend or husband (like calling and seeing
her all the time, paying tons of attention to her,
courting her, etc.) then you are IMPLYING that you
want her to have feelings for her. And she will.

Solve this problem before it happens. Don't
imply.