Wednesday, December 5, 2007

5 "Wussy Signals" Women Notice Instantly

It's interesting not because of the content of
the actual question... but, more because of what
it SAYS about you and what you're thinking.

When you say, "Can you tell me how to ask a
woman if she has kids before a first date?" it
implies that you think that there's something
wrong with just coming out and asking it.

It's like you're saying, "Well, I know that I
can't just ASK her if she has kids... so can you
tell me some cool trick to get her to spill it
without me having to ask?".

Well guess what?

THIS IS A PROBLEM.

It's not necessary to use trickery when you
want to know something about a woman.

If you want to know if a woman has kids, then
you need to ASK.

Say "Hey, do you have any kids?".

If she says, "Yes", then say, "Great. I'm
really looking for a woman who doesn't have any
kids, but we can be friends".

Let's use a different example.

Let's say you've placed a personal ad online
for Acura Cl Mirror.

Let's say that a cute woman replies.

Let's say that she sends you a picture... but
it only shows her face... and you're only
interested in women who are slim.

Now, you probably would write to me and ask me
to give you some slick way to get her to share how
much she weighs with you without having to ask.

Wrong idea.

Just email her and say, "Hey, how tall are you
and how much do you weigh? I really prefer women
who are slim. Let me know...".

That's it.

Think about it.

If she IS slim, she'll tell you, and probably
be glad that you were up front with her and
direct.

If she ISN'T slim, she'll be glad you told her
now and didn't waste her time.

I think that your problem is probably rooted in
insecurity, and caring too much what other people
think of you.

...by the way... it's NOT OK to say, "Hey, I
really HATE FAT CHICKS... so tell me now, because
if you're fat I'm going to bail...".

That's not cool.

If you act like an adult and expect others to
act like adults, you'll do well with women.

If you pussy-foot around the issue (a perfect
term for you and this) you'll wind up trying to do
things that waste everyone's time.

If you're up front, direct, and not caring what
other people think of you, then you're going to
make women respond more powerfully.

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