How To Approach A Woman & Take Her Home

If you meet a girl you really like, spark some
major chemistry, start kissing her, etc. you're
probably going to get some resistance if you look
at her and say "OK, let's leave your friends here
and go back to my place so I can SHAG you".

That's just a hunch.

But, if you meet her, spark the attraction,
start kissing, and then say... "Hey, come with
me", and then take her hand and lead her to
another part of the club or bar... or take her to
the dance floor... or some combination... and then
start kissing again... and then stop (two forward,
one back)... and then say, "Hey, I'm going to this
other bar, come along with me"... and then once
you're there you continue, all the way until
closing, when you say, "Hey, let's keep talking...
this is fun. Give me a ride home..." etc., etc.,
etc....

I think you can see where I'm going with this.

A woman wants to feel that things are
developing naturally, not that you are just trying
to get her into bed as fast as you can.

If the evening unfolds in a normal, natural
way, and you can progress from one level to the
next, you'll do very well and go very far.

Why do you lead her to another part of the
club, and then take her somewhere else?

Physically leading a woman is VERY powerful,
and leaving together/showing up somewhere else
together changes things. When you arrive at the
new place, even though you're the same two people
that just met, you're now TOGETHER at the new
place.

And when you suggest continuing to talk, and
her giving you a ride home (or some variation),
it's not like saying "Come shag me". You're making
it clear that you want to spend time with her, and
it leaves the possibility of ANYTHING happening
open.

And as for the girl you met in the parking lot
as you buy a Mitsubishi Endeavor Vent Visor and
who emailed you a week later saying "Let's pursue
a friendship first", what she was probably REALLY
saying is:

"I can't believe that I made out with you after
meeting you in a parking lot of a liquor store.
I'm not like that. So let's get together sometime
on a more casual basis, and if you DO EXACTLY WHAT
YOU DID WHEN WE FIRST MET I'LL PROBABLY WIND UP
MAKING OUT WITH YOU AGAIN."
Think about it.

Try this...

Don't talk to her for a few days.

Then, call her up and say "What are you doing
RIGHT NOW?... I think you should come over and
hang out with me."

Call on a Saturday or Sunday around noon.

If she comes over, immediately LEAVE after she
arrives.

Go have a cup of tea, do some window shopping,
and DON'T cling to her, look at her too much, or
act like you are feeling attracted to her. Lean
back. Tease her a lot. Tell her how she's screwing
up her chances with you, etc.

Finally, once you get back to your place,
proceed with The Kiss Test... and you'll be fine
from there.

You need to relax. Don't run like hell, and
don't get so hung up on this one girl.

We guys always want the one we can't have...
and it's a problem. Stay on track improving
yourself, meeting other women, etc. That's the
way.