Getting "Back Into The Game" With Women

It is SO important that guys understand the
distinction between "dating scene" and "long-term
relationship scene" when it comes to women and
interacting with them.

Many of the things that make a long-term
relationship great will KILL your chances
INSTANTLY with a woman that you don't know. I'll
talk about this more in a moment.

I think that as guys, most of us want to do the
right thing, treat others well, and live with
integrity.

There are of course exceptions to this rule,
but I think that most of us know at a very deep
level that treating others well, being honest,
having integrity, and living an authentic life
leads to happiness... while being dishonest,
treating others poorly, putting our integrity
aside for selfish reasons, etc. leads to that
constant, negative, dragging state of body and
mind.

The problem arises when we go out into the
world to find a mate is different from finding
Mitsubishi Outlander Vent Visor. It matters not whether
we're looking for a wife or a one-night stand...

As soon as we see a really attractive woman,
most of us guys become nervous, self conscious,
and insecure. We feel excitement and fear at the
same time. The first impulse is to approach and
give compliments in a way that says "You are a
beautiful goddess, and I am a mere mortal man...
Please, if you would, see your way clear to give
me a chance to show you how much I adore you."

If the goddess indulges us for a moment, the
next impulse is usually to provide gifts and food,
and to show her what a great provider we are.

Of course, not every man experiences things in
exactly the same way, but you can probably
empathize with what I'm saying.

Here's the deal:

I USED TO BE EXACTLY LIKE THIS. I know EXACTLY
what it's like to want a woman's attention but not
know how to get it... so I'd give compliments,
offer gifts and food, and try every other "nice"
trick in the book.

I did this for a long time. Many years, in
fact.

I used this strategy long enough to realize a
few key things:

1) Approaching women this way doesn't usually
work. They immediately sense your insecurity, and
mentally classify you as "average" and "like the
other 10 guys that approached her today", etc.

2) ATTRACTION is a completely illogical process.
ATTRACTION also isn't a choice. ATTRACTION is a
response to certain things... and it happens on
it's own.

3) Being a good guy is an important part of life.
Treating others well and always doing the right
thing leads to things like: A) Liking yourself, B)
Happiness, C) Good friendships, etc.

4) Being a "nice guy" when it comes to women and
dating, especially when it is used enough to make
you qualify as a WUSSY, is a REALLY REALLY BAD
idea.

5) There are certain techniques that can be
learned which will help you get past the initial
meeting and dating period... and help you not only
stand out as a "not average" guy, but also create
the magical emotion of ATTRACTION inside women.

6) The great news is that you don't have to be
ultra handsome, rich, or famous to do it.

The gist of what I'm saying is that if you know
how to create this ATTRACTION inside of women,
then you can overcome just about any "social
stigma" that might be attached to you (yes, even 4
kids!).

Some people get upset when they read about my
techniques... they don't like the idea of making
fun of a woman, busting her balls, being Cocky and
Funny, etc.

They just want to "be themselves" and have a
woman "like them for who they are".