There's a HUGE mistake that I see guys making
ALL THE TIME when it comes to women and dating.
And it goes a little somethin' like this...
GUYS OFTEN MAKE THE MISTAKE OF "SELLING" TOO
FAR IN ADVANCE INSTEAD OF JUST GETTING TO THE
NEXT STEP.
For example, let's say that a guy is talking
to a woman at a coffee shop. Maybe she's sitting
at the next table over and they strike up a
conversation about the weather.
Further, let's say that the woman is unusually
attractive and the man is unusually AVERAGE in his
approach and method of communicating that he's interetsted.
This guy might say something like:
"So, let me guess... you have a boyfriend, right?"
Or...
"OK, I have to tell you... I find you really
attractive and I'd like to take you out sometime."
I'm sure you've seen this kind of thing a
thousand times in your life.
But what's going on here? Is the guy actually
asking a casual question?
HELL NO.
The guy is literally communicating that he'd
like to PURSUE A RELATIONSHIP with the woman.
Yea, and even worse, he's doing it within a
few minutes of meeting her!
Explained differently, the guy is trying to
sell the woman on a relationship in the future
based on five minutes of conversation.
And what happens? Of course...
The woman puts up the resistance INSTANTLY.
It's all kinds of wrong in all kinds of ways.
It's WUSSY behavior in its purest form.
It's one of the biggest mistakes men make,
period.
And of course this is only the tip of the
iceberg.
Guys do this kind of "selling too far ahead"
stuff all the way along unlike the selling
of Mitsubishi Raider Vent Visor.
Guys ask things like:
"So, am I your type?"
...and...
"How do you like me so far?"
...and...
"What do you look for in an ideal partner?"
Ahhhhhhh!
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!
You can't do this stuff! If you do you'll
create an instant barrier to success!
So what's the alternative?
I really thought you'd never ask.
The alternative is to know all the steps
from the first meeting all the way to the bedroom
(and beyond), and ONLY WORK ON GETTING TO THE
NEXT STEP in each situation.
If you're talking to a girl, just get her
email.
If you're talking on the phone, just arrange
a meeting for a cup of tea.
If you're kissing, just go back to your place
to be alone.
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