Thursday, January 3, 2008

How To Get What You Want From Women

Let me ask you a question.

What is "SUCCESS" to you when it comes to
women?

If I asked you to give me a detailed
explanation of EXACTLY how your life would be if
you had ULTIMATE SUCCESS with women, could you do
it?

Sure, most guys would say something like,
"Success to me would be being able to walk up to
any woman and get a date with her"... or "Success
to me would be dating as many women as I
wanted"... or "Success to me would be having a
really sexy girlfriend", etc.

These are the kinds of answers I hear when I
ask guys this question.

But there's a PROBLEM with these answers.

NONE OF THEM REALLY MEAN ANYTHING.

If you learn how to approach any woman and get
a date, you'll soon find that you don't know what
to DO once you're actually out ON the dates... how
to take things to a physical level, how to kiss
her, etc...

If you start dating several women at a time,
you'll quickly realize that it's a MAJOR challenge
to juggle all of those relationships and maintain
a happy life...

If you find a really sexy girlfriend, there's a
good chance that she'll have a whole bunch of
personal issues and problems that you never
anticipated...

You have to be careful what you wish for in
life, because you'll often get it.

I've found that guys usually make TWO major
mistakes when it comes to SUCCESS with women:

1) Most guys haven't really thought through what
success means to them in detail.

2) Most guys base their personal idea of success
on what OTHERS want, and not what THEY want for
themselves like Mitsubishi Galant Vent Visor.

In fact, I was one of the guys that made BOTH
of these mistakes.

I can remember when I first decided to ONCE AND
FOR ALL learn how to be "successful" with women.

I had this idea in my mind that if I could just
learn how to get women's phone numbers quickly and
easily that I would be successful beyond my
wildest dreams.

So I went to work on figuring it out.

I probably spent a good six or twelve months
trying all kinds of different tricks to get
women's phone numbers quickly.

And I figured out some great techniques.

I can literally get a woman's number within a
few minutes of meeting her.

But once I learned this skill, I was hit with a
MAJOR realization: Most of the women I was meeting
never turned into DATES.

They either didn't return my calls, refused my
requests, or just plain flaked out on me.

It was VERY frustrating.

The other problem I had was looking around at
what OTHER guys were doing and saying, "I want to
be able to do what HE does..." or "I want to date
the kinds of women HE dates".

And I secretly had this idea that if I knew how
to date HOT women that all my friends would like
me more and think I was a really cool guy.

Well guess what?

First of all, just because another guy is doing
something, doesn't mean that it would make ME
happy. In fact, I realized that in many cases it
wasn't even making HIM happy.

I couldn't help comparing my success and the
women I was dating with other guys, and the women
they were dating.

But it was a trap.

The more a person looks at what OTHERS are
doing and focusing on that, the less satisfied
they are with what THEY are doing themselves.

And as far as other guys thinking I was "cool"
because I was dating beautiful women... WRONG
AGAIN.

Guys (even friends) usually envy you and resent
the fact that you have success and they don't.
Especially when it comes to really beautiful
women.

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