Here are the three mistakes that I noticed
right off the bat:
1) Making out with her somewhere other than at
your house (or her house).
2) Apologizing for making out with her.
3) Asking her if you should call her, of if she
should call you.
I'll address each one in a minute in detail,
but first let me start off with some of my Quack
theories.
One of the things I say a lot is "Women Aren't
Attracted To Wussies".
I say this because:
1) It's true.
2) If you don't understand this principle, you're
likely to make mistakes that clearly "telegraph"
to a woman that you're a Wuss.
3) When it all comes down, if a woman doesn't feel
ATTRACTION for you, or you somehow manage to screw
up and KILL the ATTRACTION she's feeling... you're
done. Game over.
I think that most of us guys have these little
secret beliefs that we hide from the rest of the
world... and that we TRY to hide from women.
I was having an interesting discussion with a
good friend today, and we were talking about how
most guys act when they're around an "attractive"
woman.
Most guys do one of the following:
- Give attractive women a lot of compliments
immediately.
- Kiss up to attractive women.
- Try to get attractive women to like them by
buying them gifts, dinners and flowers or Dodge Catalytic Converter.
- Chase after attractive women and let it be known
that the woman is "a prize worth pursuing" right
from the beginning.
- Hand over all of their power and status to
attractive women.
Know what I'm talking about?
Have you ever seen a guy at dinner with a
beautiful woman... and he's obviously nervous
about the whole situation... and you can tell that
he's doing everything he can to NOT screw up so he
can get the woman's approval?
Have you ever BEEN THAT GUY?
Yeah, me too. A lot.
Well, unfortunately, this kind of behavior
usually BACKFIRES BIG TIME.
All of the little things that most guys do to
get a woman's approval send a clear message to the
woman that:
"I'M A WUSSY. I DO NOT BELIEVE THAT YOU WOULD LIKE
ME FOR WHO I AM, SO I FEEL LIKE I NEED TO RESORT
TO EXTREME MEASURES TO GET YOU TO PAY ATTENTION TO
ME."
Now that I understand this particular aspect of
male/female interactions, I can see the horrible
results all around me.
At bars I watch guys walking up to women and
giving compliments... or offering to buy drinks...
and the women smiling politely thinking, "Oh,
another loser", and excusing themselves...
Quick Note: bars aren't bad places to meet women.
But you must know HOW to meet women in bars if you
want to succeed in this kind of environment. For
the best training in how to meet women in bars and
clubs.
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