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If you listen to women talk about men, you'll
often hear them use the word "ANNOYING" to
describe certain men and certain things that some
men DO.
Now, as you can probably guess, it's not
usually a good thing when a woman uses this
particular word to describe a guy...
And, as you can ALSO probably guess, when a
woman uses this particular word, it's not usually
about guys who she is ATTRACTED to (although this
isn't always true).
Now, it's taken me a few years of paying
attention to really get a handle on what women are
talking about when they say, "He's annoying" or
"It's so annoying when he does that".
And guess what I realized was at the ROOT of
women finding a guy or his behavior annoying?
IT'S ALMOST ALWAYS WUSSY BEHAVIOR!
AHHHH!
THINGS THAT ANNOY WOMEN...
Here are some of the things that many women
consider to be "annoying":
- Calling her too often
- Telling her that you have "feelings" for her too
early
- Giving away your power to her and making her the
boss
- Always asking a woman what she wants instead of
leading
- Acting submissive and weak
- Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and
manipulative requests
- Being her doormat and putting your own needs like
Chevrolet Catalytic Converter aside
"WHAT?" you say.
"HOW COULD THIS BE?"... you might be thinking.
How is it possible that demonstrating your
affection for a woman by calling her, telling her
how you feel, letting her make the decisions, and
putting her first could be considered ANNOYING, of
all things?
Well guess what?
IT IS.
Women, and ESPECIALLY the most ATTRACTIVE and
desirable women, usually consider the above things
to be VERY annoying.
Of course, the reason for this is because no
matter how good these kinds of behaviors seem on
the surface, there's only one conclusion that can
be drawn from them:
THE MAN DOING THEM IS A BONAFIDE, 100%
CERTIFIABLE WUSSY!
AND WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.
NEVER.
Now, do I really, really, REALLY mean that
women are NEVER, EVER attracted to Wussies?
I mean, isn't that an over-generalization?
Nothing is always true, right?
Well, this one IS.
Actually, what I MEAN is...
As far as generalizations go, this particular
one is as close to being true all the time as they
get.
And just in case I haven't said this enough,
let me say it one more time... just to make sure
it's clear:
WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.
So now you understand why all of the "nice"
things that you've done for women seem to always
result in the woman pulling away.
It's because she finds your nice-guy "Wuss"
behaviors to be ANNOYING.
AND IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE...
To further confuse things, you'll often hear a
woman say something to the effect of...
"I want a STRONG guy who is also SENSITIVE..."
...or...
"He needs to have his own life, his own
interests, and his own friends, but also be
totally focused on me..."
I see things like this in women's personal ads
all the time. I'm sure you've seen things like
this yourself.
Women often talk about wanting a combination of
things in a man that just don't seem to fit...
So what's going on here?
Are women crazy? (Yes.)
But seriously, what are they talking about?
How is it that women seem to always talk about
wanting men who have these qualities that don't
fit together?
I know that I personally used to hear this
stuff and then say to myself "OK, well I've got
the sensitive part covered so I guess I need to
start acting a little bit stronger."
I thought that maybe this came down to getting
my lazy ass to the gym and working out. You know,
to become "stronger".
No, I'm serious.
Well, here's the BIG REALIZATION that I had...
I've now realized that I had it all wrong.
Instead of thinking to myself that I was a
nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little
stronger, what I really needed was to become a
strong guy who could also act sensitive on
occasion.
The difference seems almost like word-play, but
it's not. Not at all.
You see, when a woman says that she wants a
"strong guy who's also sensitive", that's what she
MEANS.
She wants a guy who's STRONG. The sensitive
part is far more "optional" than the STRONG part.
This is why women often date jerks and guys who
are emotionally unavailable, and don't date us
"nice guys" who would do anything for them.
Remember, ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.
Women do not sit down and make a list of the
qualities that a particular guy has, then think it
over it for a few days, then DECIDE whether or not
to FEEL ATTRACTION.
NO WAY.
It happens in an INSTANT, and it happens for
all kinds of "illogical" reasons... reasons that
even the woman who is feeling it can't usually
describe.
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